I look at social media and I see so many people posting about all the happy, shiny things in life. And then I hear or see some more private posts of my fellow photographers or other business owners, or friends struggling for other reasons. And I realize that this disconnect between the “instagram perfect” world and real life is why I have not had the energy to post lately. I have plenty of work from the fall/winter to post…but I just don’t have the energy. There is a very real thing for business owners called burnout. My struggles are not because of my business but they are affecting my business. I feel so beaten down right now that I can’t seem to get my head above the surface for more than a few minutes/maybe hours at a time it seems. I am not writing this for sympathy or pity, but I felt like it may resonate with others who are struggling. I decided it is time to be real… (and also share some photos that may bring you a smile).
If you are struggling, I want you to know that you are not alone. I’m not sure if it is the time of year, Mars being in retrograde, or just our messed up world…but it seems a lot of us are having a tough time.
We have to remember that we WILL get through this time, even if it feels like it is never ending. I took this first photo while listening to the song “Thy Will Be Done” thinking that I may at some point put it into photo competition. Whether you believe in God or not, I hope that you can find comfort from a higher power in times like these. In my struggles, I know that God has a plan. By no means does this make it easier or make it go away any faster. But I have to believe that I will come through this stronger and that it will work out for the best even if I don’t understand it.
During challenging times, I try my best to feel gratitude for the positives in my life: friends, health, a sunny day, family, etc. I also find that working out is helpful for me to try to get my head straight…especially boxing lately! What do you do to try to make yourself feel better when you are going through a tough time?
0 Comments